Sunday, February 26, 2006

Break it up!

I think Mr. B. is history. In a post last week I mentioned that Mr. B and I had a big fight. We were supposed to get together this weekend to talk it out, but when I called him to see what was going on, he sounded weird. I said, "Should we break up?" He said "No," but then the words "time," "space" and "see other people" were uttered. So, in other words, we've broken up without actually breaking up.

Don't worry, I'm fine. I will probably miss him, but the fact that we were fighting so much this early in our relationship was a pretty good sign that we weren't meant to be. It is possible that he actually means that he just wants a little time and space, so don't hold me to this broken-up thing. Although I doubt that, and even if he does mean it, I'm not sure I would want him back unless he can treat me better.

Oh, well. I'm a 25-year-old single girl in NYC, and that's not a bad thing to be.

2 comments:

Gwen said...

don't forget gorgeous, funny, intelligent, and a slew of other wonderful and crazy qualities. at least he wasn't an aussie guitarist... you might miss him, but i'm guessing that you won't miss the fights.

Erin said...

You're too good to me! Well, Mr. B is a guitarist, but not an Aussie, so I can take comfort in that. Hee.

Everything's been fine between us at work, so that's a big relief. I will definitely not miss the fights. I cried more while dating him than with my last three relationships combined (which, all together, lasted about two years). Despite that fact, I think I will remember the relationship fondly. He's not a bad guy, he just lost his head.